Mindset Nugget: How loyal are you?
You know deep down you're totally capable and ready to live a life that lights you up. Whether that means having more fun, falling in love, pivoting careers, or making more money in your business. But then, your self saboteur jumps in and throws the toys out of the pram. Fears, self doubt, not feeling good enough and that annoying scarcity mindset consume you.
And let's get real, the self saboteur loves to cling to those old-school beliefs you might have picked up growing up, like:
“You can’t do that because x,y,z” (in my case it was because I was a girl)
"You're too sensitive."
"Why can't you be more like your sister/brother?”
"Money doesn't grow on trees."
"Good things don't happen to people like us."
“That’s not a real job”
"You'll never amount to anything."
"Don't get too big for your boots.”
"Don't forget where you come from."
These beliefs can be sneaky and mess with your happiness, love life and finances. Our self saboteur really likes to be loyal to these old outdated beliefs and hold onto them. The best part is I know that you truly DO have the power to kick those old beliefs to the curb and create new beliefs that support the amazing life you're meant to live! It requires these 3 things:
The ability to SELF-REFLECT leading to SELF AWARENESS when said Self Saboteur decides to poo on your parade
A change in the type of language you use to talk to yourself (this one’s a game changer!)
Learning how to reframe your perspective to change your experience of a given situation (instead of “this is too hard”, “Wow! This is so going to catapult my growth.”
The good news is I’ve been working on a FREE WEBINAR which goes into this in much more detail. If this is something you’d like help with, drop me a line and I’ll send it out to you when it’s ready.